" CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM "

Good day to you, I wish to thank you for dropping by. This week we will be discussing criticism and how it should be dispensed. Before criticizing another we must pause long enough to discover our own motives. Failing to do this can bring disastrous results. What is often labeled as " Constructive Criticism " may actually be destructive jealously, since the easiest way to raise our own status is to bring someone else down. Are you willing to question your motives before you offer criticism? Does the critical finger you point need to be pointed first toward yourself? Any time I point I'm reminded that three other fingers are looking my way. To criticize is to judge as a critic: to evaluate; to find fault; or to just express criticism. Have your facts straight before you criticize. Now,if you hear of a friend who has wandered from the Lord or of entire congregations that have fallen away, we should check the facts and find the truth before doing or saying anything that could prove harmful. There are times, of course when God wants us to take action - to rebuke a head strong fractious acquaintance, to discipline a child, to reject false teaching - but first we must always be sure we have all the facts correct. When the need arises and you are very sure of your facts proceed with love face to face. Sometimes sincere Christians,yes even christian leaders blunder. And it may take other sincere Christians to get one back on track. Now if you are assured that someone is doing harm to themselves or the church, try the direct approach. There is no place for backstabbing in the Body Of Christ. When the time comes to rebuke another it must be drawn with caution. The purpose of any rebuke, confrontation, or discipline is to help people, not hurt them. Be affirming let them know that you appreciate them and therefore you feel led to speak up. When we must correct another, it helps to begin by affirming what God has already accomplished in them. Your words may need to be firm but motivated by love - like the love that a good father has for his children, you parents know what I mean. Until Next Time... Jim,